It is said that chatting with a girl at night is the most effective, because the night is when a girl is most relaxed, and she also has enough time to chat with you. If you can chat happily with a girl at night, then the girl will be very happy. It's possible that he will develop a liking for you. But many boys actually don’t know what topics to talk about with a girl at night to arouse her interest. Below, senior Xiaoyu will bring you a list of topics to chat with a girl at night. When looking for a girl at night, don’t just say “Are you there?” "What are you doing?" and the like.
1. Sharing with each other
When girls are free at night, they usually watch their favorite TV, listen to their favorite songs, and relax themselves in the evening. So if you are chatting with a girl at night, you might as well share with the girl what each other is doing. You can get a lot of information from the girl's sharing.
For example, a girl says she is listening to the song "Torture". You need to know the songs a person usually likes to listen to, maybe It represents her current perceptions, mood, taste, and status, so it is a good signal for a girl to share a song with you.
You can ask her: What’s wrong with such a heart-wrenching song? What scene does it touch, what emotion does it evoke?
And if she is listening to: "Cloudy Day"
Then you can say: Does this song reflect today's mood?
Just say at the beginning:
What is your most recent single song, please share it
It is best not to listen to the more irritable songs at night
For example, Cui Jian’s: I have to walk from south to north, and from white to black~~~
Then it is not suitable to talk about emotions next!
2. Talk about interesting childhood stories
Childhood always gives people a beautiful and carefree feeling, and when a girl is willing to talk to you about the "past", it means : She trusts you. And the topic of childhood is very suitable for talking about in the middle of the night. Because it can touch a lot of beautiful things, and this feeling will be transferred to chatting with you.
Then how to start the topic of childhood when chatting with girls at night? Let me share with you a saying that can cut into the topic of childhood:
For example, if you say to a girl:
If childhood has colors, what do you think your childhood is? What color?
Here is what senior Xiaoyu thinks childhood is, and you can show it off when chatting with girls:
“I think childhood is light yellow, with There are chirping cicadas, paulownia trees, old men playing chess under the trees, and little friends’ penises..."
Girl: Pfft, hahaha, the color of summer.
If you likeThe girl Huan's childhood is not happy. She said it was black, so you have to change the topic:
"Childhood is a very important stage in our lives. Lucky people are surrounded by childhood all their lives. Healing, and the unfortunate ones spend their whole lives healing their childhoods” and then one plus a “hug” emoji! She will think that you are really a good "confidence partner" because you understand her~
3. Truth or Dare
We always have some things and some words that cannot be so direct To talk naked, you always need to use other ways to express.
For example: Alcohol
For example: Games
This is what I often say about the techniques for flirting with girls: steps!
Truth or dare, you can start the game with the help of the dice or rock, paper, scissors that comes with WeChat. Just say one sentence at the beginning:
"Are you sleepy now?"
She said: Not bad
Then you can throw out: Let's play Truth or Dare for a while~ Then start chatting step by step
Believe me, girls like to play this game, because girls are curious and have a desire to pry. And this game is just a reasonable "pass" for her "desire to spy"....
Summary: It's really simple to find a girl to chat with at night, as long as you pay enough attention. You can find what girls are interested in, and you won’t have to worry about finding topics when chatting every day.
