Recently, while chatting with friends about the topic of pursuing women, I noticed that many men immediately back off when they hear a woman say, "We're not compatible." In fact, this is actually the best opportunity! Today, I'd like to share my perspective on this.
I remember a friend of mine who pursued a woman for six months, only to hear her say, "We're not compatible." He was extremely disheartened and thought it was over. However, he later adjusted his mindset and continued to interact with her as a friend. Three months later, the woman confessed her feelings to him! This reminded me of a saying: when a woman says "we're not compatible," she is often testing your sincerity.
A netizen commented: "When a woman says 'we're not compatible,' she's actually seeing if you'll give up easily. Those who persist often win the beauty's heart." This is so true! When a woman says "we're not compatible," she is often testing your determination. If you really like her, it's worth persisting a bit longer.
However, it's important to note that persistence doesn't mean being overly clingy. I've seen too many men who, upon hearing "we're not compatible," start showering the woman with gifts and dinners, only to end up losing both the person and their resources. A fellow townsman of mine spent tens of thousands chasing a woman and didn't even get to hold her hand. So, it's crucial to have the right approach when pursuing a woman.
I believe the most important thing is to maintain sincerity and patience. Don't confess your feelings right away; start by being friends and gradually get to know each other. Show concern for her, but don't overdo it. For example, if she's sick, just send her some medicine; there's no need to visit the hospital every day. This shows thoughtfulness without putting too much pressure on her.
Another important point is to improve yourself. When a woman says "we're not compatible," sometimes she genuinely feels you're not good enough. So instead of spending money to please her, invest in yourself. Learn new skills, cultivate hobbies, and make yourself more attractive.
Finally, I want to say that there's no fixed formula for pursuing a woman; the key is to be sincere. If the other person really has no feelings for you, don't force it. After all, relationships are a two-way street, and you can't force love. But if you really like her, give yourself another chance when she says "we're not compatible." Who knows, this might be the beginning of your story!