Recently, while surfing the internet, I stumbled upon a particularly interesting phenomenon—videos about "how to find a girlfriend" are exploding in number! Just today, I came across more than a dozen of them, with view counts ranging from a few hundred to several hundred thousand. Honestly, as someone who's been through it (ahem, don't get me wrong, I'm already in a relationship), I find this topic quite fascinating, so I wanted to share my thoughts with you.
First of all, I have to say, finding a girlfriend isn't something you can learn just by watching a few videos. As my friend Lao Wang puts it, "No matter how many videos you watch, it's better to get out and about more." This couldn't be truer. Take those high-view videos, for example, like "Sister Yu Talks About Emotions" with 78,000 views, and "Traveler East Talks West" with a whopping 350,000 views. Yet, the comment sections are still filled with people lamenting, "After watching, I'm still single." Haha, that's probably just the reality.
That said, these videos aren't completely useless. Take the 51-minute long video by "Gentle Breeze Startling Shadows," for instance. Although I didn't finish it (it's too long, who has the patience?), I heard it covers a lot of practical social skills. Then there's "Egypt Monkey Brother's" 6-minute and 48-second video with 1,885 views. While not particularly high, the content is said to be quite down-to-earth, focusing on how to naturally strike up conversations with girls in everyday life.
Personally, I believe the most important things in finding a girlfriend are sincerity and confidence. If you look at those high-view videos, the core content is pretty much the same: improve yourself, participate in more social activities, and learn conversation skills. But the key is to put these theories into practice. As netizen "Cold Moon Condenses Frost" said, "After watching a bunch of videos, I still ended up getting set up by a friend." That's probably what they call "fate."
Finally, I want to say that finding a girlfriend really can't be rushed. Instead of spending all day watching videos, why not invest more time in improving yourself, like learning a new skill or cultivating a hobby? This not only boosts your confidence but also expands your social circle. Who knows, maybe one day, your fate will quietly come knocking?
In conclusion, it's fine to watch videos, but don't take them too seriously. Finding a girlfriend is something you have to experience and explore on your own. After all, everyone's story is unique, isn't it?