Recently, while chatting with my best friend about the topic of love, I realized that many girls are struggling with two main issues: how to determine if someone is truly in love with them, and what to do if they're not ready to date yet. As someone who has been through it, I'd like to share my thoughts on these matters today.
First, let's talk about how to recognize true love. I believe that the most important thing in a relationship isn't how sweet the other person's words are, but what they actually do. As my best friend mentioned, she once met a guy who would say "I love you so much, baby" every day, but when she was sick, he wouldn't even help her order takeout. This kind of love that's all talk and no action is really just something to listen to and not take seriously.
Someone who truly loves you will actively care about your emotions and will be considerate of your feelings. I remember one time when I worked late, my boyfriend came to pick me up without a second thought and brought my favorite midnight snack. It"s these little details that truly show a person's sincerity. As one netizen aptly put it in the comments: "In the vast sea of people, having someone who cares about you is truly a blessing."
As for the topic of not wanting to date, I think it"s perfectly normal. Everyone has their own pace, and there's no need to rush just because everyone around you is in a relationship. I have a friend who didn't have her first relationship until she was 28, and now she's living a very happy life. She said that waiting until she was ready made it easier to meet the right person.
There are many reasons why someone might not want to date. It could be that they haven"t met someone who makes their heart flutter, they want to focus on their career, or they're still recovering from a previous relationship. Whatever the reason, it's important to respect your own feelings. As I often say, love is not a task; there's no need to date just for the sake of dating.
Finally, whether you want to date or not, the most important thing is to love yourself. Only by learning to love yourself first can you better love others and discern who truly loves you. I hope everyone can find their own happiness, whether it's now or in the future.
Remember, true love is worth waiting for, and you are worth being treated with genuine affection.