After couples have been together for a long time, there will inevitably be times when they don’t know what to say. So what should you do at this time? Don’t look for so-called “like-minded” people outside just because you have nothing to talk about. It's just an illusion given to you by the temporary novelty. Today, the editor has brought you a solution for how to deal with a boyfriend and girlfriend who have been together for a long time and have no topic to talk about. Let’s take a look.
I always believe that the so-called freshness is to experience new things with old people, not with new people Repeat the same mistakes. So if it is because we have been together for a long time and there is no topic to talk about, here I have brought you some topics. You can choose some favorite topics to break the deadlock between you.
1. The happy things that happened today.
2. Recent work and study status.
3. New things I bought recently.
4. Recall the most bizarre experiences together.
5. Tell him/her about the weather changes.
6. Plan arrangements after the meeting.
7. The friend who made the most profound impression in childhood.
8. Communicate each other’s interests and hobbies.
9. Tell him/her: I miss you so much.
10. Recall what we have experienced together.
1I. Which city do you want to develop in the future?
12. You can talk about what you want to do in the future.
13. Talk about the concept of love.
14. Which shortcomings of the other party cannot be accepted.
15. The shining point in me that attracts you the most.
16. I had an argument with my parents because of something.
17. Do you have any weird friends?
18. Set up rules for each other’s love.
19. A special experience of yours.
20. The place you most want to go to.
21. Who is dominant in love?
22. What do you do when you are in a bad mood.
23. The other person has done something that touched each other the most.
24. The romantic wedding in your heart.
25. What do you think is the most important quality of a boy/girl?
26. What would you do if you won the lottery?
27. What kind of pet do you want to have in the future?
28. Do you think the sense of ritual is important?
29. Talk about 3 advantages of each other.
30. That quarrel felt the most aggrieved.
31.How are you?Sensing my anger.
32. The most suitable age for marriage.
33. What words can hurt you.
34. The biggest change after being together.
35. The dialect of my hometown.
36. The little secret deep in your heart.
37. Establish rules for each other’s love.
38. Why do you fall in love with me?
39. Why did you cry last time?
40. The most romantic thing in my mind.
Increase intimacy
1. Say more sweet words: Anyone who is in love likes to hear them Sweet words, don’t be stingy with your love words.
2. Sense of love ritual: For example, buy a small gift for him/her, or ask what he/she needs most in the near future, and then buy it quietly.
3. Learn to talk heart-to-heart: Find a time when everyone is free to calm down and talk about your dissatisfaction or grievances truthfully.
4. Insist on checking in good morning and good night: Develop the habit of missing each other. A small thing can exchange for a lot of security.
5. Learn to put yourself in someone else’s shoes: Think about the relationship between the two of you in an introspective way, and don’t spend too much time doubting the other person’s behavior.
