Dating is a traditional way of marriage and love. For the post-90s generation, dating and chatting is a very important link. In this process, how can we chat to make the other party like us more? Let me share with you some secrets of dating and chatting among those born in the 1990s.
1. Understand the other person
In a blind date chat, the first thing to do is to understand the other person. You can start with the other person's interests, hobbies, work experience, family background, etc., and gradually get to know the other person by asking questions and listening to the other person's answers. At the same time, you should also pay attention to the other person's expression and tone in order to better understand the other person.
For example:
What kind of exercise do you usually like to do? Do you have a particular favorite movie genre? What challenges have you faced at work?
2. Common topics
In blind date chatting, it is very important to find common topics. Common topics can make it easier for both parties to resonate and communicate, and can increase the sense of tacit understanding between each other. You can find common topics by asking each other about their hobbies, travel experiences, etc.
For example:
Do you like traveling? Have you been to any interesting places?
3. Humor
In a blind date chat, humor is a good advantage. Appropriate humor can relieve tension and increase the other person's favorability. You can show your sense of humor by telling jokes and making jokes.
For example:
I recently learned a new cooking technique, which is to cook noodles until they are soft and hard. I wonder if you are interested in trying it?
4. Sincere expression
In a blind date and chat, sincere expression is very important. You can show your true character by expressing your thoughts and feelings, and you can increase the other person's trust in you. At the same time, you should also pay attention to listening to the other party's opinions and ideas, and give the other party sufficient attention and respect.
For example:
I think what you said makes sense, and I have the same opinion.
5. Pay attention to details
In a blind date chat, paying attention to details can make the other party feel your care and consideration. You can show your care by asking about the other person's current situation, caring about the other person's family, etc.
For example:
Has your work been going well recently? Are your parents in good health?
6. Confidence and calmness
In a blind date and chat, it is very important to be confident and calm. Confidence can make the other person feel that you are charming and capable, while being calm can make the other person feel that you are stable and mature. You can demonstrate your confidence and calmness by maintaining good posture, speaking fluently, and having a confident expression.
For example:
I am full of confidence in the future and believe that we can create beauty togetherlife.
The above are some tips for dating and chatting after the 90s. I hope they will be helpful to everyone. In a blind date chat, the most important thing is to show yourself truly and respect the other person’s opinions and ideas. Only in this way can real feelings be established.
