Boys should all have experienced being blocked by girls. You must know that girls will definitely not block you for no reason. It must be that you have made her angry, or you have been chatting with her to make her feel single, so you just blocked her. Hack you into trouble. But why do girls choose to block you instead of deleting you? Are you reluctant to let go of a girl who has been blocked on WeChat but not deleted?
1. Leave leeway
Every time my best friend has a big fight with her boyfriend, she will block him so that he cannot contact her. When he realized the seriousness of the problem, he apologized to my best friend to make things better, and then he added more. Until the last time, both of them probably reached the limit of their patience. She deleted his WeChat in anger and never added him back.
Girls block you but don’t delete you because they want to have room for reversal. Deleting someone will give you a sense of loss, while blocking someone will still be under control. If you reconcile as before, the girl can just take you off the blacklist and pretend that nothing happened. A girl may be very angry when she blocks you and doesn't want to talk to you, but even when she is the most angry, there is still a soft place in her heart and she cannot bear to delete you directly.
2. Blocking people to vent their anger
Some girls have a higher profile and are very resistant to others invading their psychology. limit. When she meets people who are unhappy with her, she blocks them all. Blocking them is simply a way of venting their anger. If you post to WeChat Moments, you will be blocked; if you post to Moments every day, it will blow up the screen, and you will be blocked; if the content in your Moments is vulgar, you will be blocked; if you have nothing to do, you will chat with her and she is busy, so you will be blocked... I have a colleague , the blacklist is almost as long as the address book, this is the mentality.
Anyone who offends her is blocked. It is not worth her time. She would rather misjudge than let go.
3. Avoid being entangled
Except for the first two situations when a girl blocks you on WeChat but does not delete you, Another type is when a girl meets someone who is entangled with her. In this case, deletion is actually possible, but the girl can't bear to be bothered because the other party is still sending friend requests, so she has no choice but to block her. She no longer needs to receive messages, and the world is clean.
Xia Xiaotang: I have one person on my blacklist now! Let’s talk about my personal thoughts on blocking him but not deleting it! It's because this person has disappointed me so much. Even if he deletes his WeChat or phone number, he can still add you, find you, and continue to disturb your life, and I don't want that. But blocking is different! We will never have any future troubles and don’t bother each other!
Summary: The difference between blocking and deleting a girl is that blocking is more thorough, she doesn’t want you to bother her anymore, and she still has the initiative In my own hands, if I let go of it one day, I might be able to remove you from the blacklist. But deletion is different.After deleting WeChat, you can add it again, and the cycle starts again. If a girl is determined to cut off contact with you, she will definitely choose to block you first and then delete you!
