I find that chatting is a dead end for most male friends, and they have no idea how to chat with girls. I don’t have a fan to ask this question, what should I do if I want to contact a girl but there is no topic? Today, the editor will teach you how to "talk" to her, come and take a look.
1. Just say "Hello" when adding WeChat. It is easy to be silent. Introduce yourself generously.
1. Hello~ I am XX from a certain department/department. Senior, please give me some advice.
2. Hello, young lady, I met you in xx today and thought you have a very special temperament, so I asked a friend to ask for your contact information. I hope it’s not too abrupt.
Department + location + your name, increase memory points, let him remember you quickly.
2. Start the topic naturally
1. “I saw a new movie posted on your WeChat Moments, but I haven’t seen it yet. What’s the review?”
2. "Thank you for your help today, otherwise I really don't know what to do"
3. "Can you recommend any delicious restaurants near your company? I have no resistance to delicious food~"
p>Starting with a simple question is more engaging than directly asking "what are you doing?"
3. The secret of not being cold-hearted: "Talk about their past"
1. "Which city are you in?" What university did you study in?"
2. "What major are you studying?"
3. "How long have you been working in this company?"
4. "What is your best subject?"
5. "Did you have a nickname when you were in college?"
Some people are very slow to get started and are not sure what the other person likes. , just ask them about their past experiences. When talking about themselves, they have the most say.
4. The secret to not being cold-hearted: “Talk about his preferences”
1. “Which female star do you think is the prettiest?”
2. “You Can you eat spicy food?"
3. "Do you like small animals? Cat pie or dog pie?"
4. "Are you picky? Is there anything you don't eat?"
5. "Which city you have visited before impressed you the most?"
Ask him about his hobbies, and he will also ask you back. People who know each other's hobbies have a good relationship. It has reached a higher level.
5. Extend the topic and divergent chat
When the other party says: "Go to eat" and you say: "Go ahead", the chat ends immediately. Try extending the topic:
1. "What are you going to eat?"
2. "I originally wanted to lose weight and stop eating, but when you told me, I became hungry too. ”
3. "Do you usually order takeout? Or do you cook it yourself?"
When chatting, you must leave a ladder for the other party to connect to the conversation.
Six: Determine his or her character and make up for whatever is lacking
1. If he or she is under a lot of pressure at work, If he is usually very serious, you can ask him, "How do you relax in your free time? Do you like to watch exhibitions?"
2. The other person is a young and artistic person, so talk about your ideals: "What was your dream when you were a child?" ”
3. If he or she is very traditional in thinking, praise him/her: “I think you make people feel safe”
4. If he is a sunny and sporty person, support him. TA’s hobbies: “I think girls who love sports are particularly beautiful!”
Show your appreciation for TA and make them feel like you are a confidant!
7. Leave it to the other person’s imagination Space
The more "dependent in words and independent in life" a girl is, the more she will be obsessed with you. Occasionally, she will reply to messages later and say to her, "I was playing ball with my brother just now and my phone is on mute."
Master your own rhythm. If he or she doesn’t look for you, and you make your social life rich and interesting, you will be more attracted to him or her to get to know you!
