Because of the difference in thinking between men and women, if boys want to catch the girl they like, learning how to chat with girls has become a compulsory course. Below, the editor will teach you some chatting skills with girls and tell you how to talk to girls. Children chat.
1. How to chat with girls
1. Create interesting topics
Love is very magical. It can make the iron tree bloom, and it should also make the elm head enlighten. Some people may not know the other person’s interests and hobbies, so they may still not be able to find a direction. We also take "Youth Song" as an example. The Taoist swordsman Zhao Yuzhen is an interesting person. The phrase "little fairy" made me laugh, and it also made Li Hanyi feel emotional. As for how you should do it, it is recommended to read more "Late Snow", here specifically refers to romance novels.
2. Reasonable use of emoticons
When chatting with girls, you can appropriately intersperse some cute emoticons, because most girls prefer cute emoticons. To put it bluntly, this is the case. To please the other person. But remember, it must be moderate, otherwise the chat will become a fight and have no practical meaning.
3. Be considerate of the other person’s feelings
I believe you are familiar with the word “falling in love”. Do you know why it means “falling in love” rather than “talking about falling in love”? "Talk about love"? The key lies in the word "talk"!
2. Chat skills with girls
1. Treat girls as ordinary chat partners
Girls are no different from other chat partners. You don't have to make dramatic changes to impress her. To be honest, if you treat her like an alien visitor, your conversation is unlikely to go smoothly. The difference between girls and boys is really not that big. Like everyone else, they also have dreams, hobbies, joys and sorrows, so just treat them as ordinary people!
If you are interested in this girl If you have a good impression of her, you should treat her as an ordinary person. You should treat the girl you like in a normal manner and show respect. It's okay to flirt or show affection, but you need to treat her as a human being.
2. Go with the person you like
Sun Tzu's Art of War says, "Know yourself and the enemy, and you will never be defeated in a hundred battles." Since you like someone, you should get to know her first. If you want someone to be your confidante, if you don’t even know her personality or what she likes, why should you let her be your confidante? What's more, how can you win a girl's heart if you can't please her? I'm afraid even flattering her will be slapped on the horse's hooves.
If you know the other person’s preferences, it is actually very easy to get closer to the other person. When chatting, only if you like each other, the two people will not chat awkwardly. Of course, love at first sight is a different story.
3. If the relationship is in place, you can say something ambiguousLove words
When two people have reached a stage of mutual ambiguity, it is easier to bring each other closer by saying some ambiguous love words at this time, but brothers must also remember that the topic should not be too explicit. , the words of tiger and wolf must not be revealed.
Because if you don’t grasp the scale well, the other party will think you are frivolous, which is likely to cause your previous efforts to fall short. So what kind of love words should you say at this time so that she won't refuse? For example, teasing her that she is your little baby, or calling her honey and other ambiguous nicknames when comforting her. If she doesn't resist, you can make it more ambiguous and in-depth. If you talk about love gradually, the relationship will become deeper and deeper.
3. Tips and methods for chatting with girls
1. Correct concern
After a long time, I found the right topic on how to chat with girls. , girls will gradually feel your sense of humor, then you should also show your gentle side. A gentle and humorous boy is the most loved by girls.
So what exactly is gentleness? In fact, it means giving girls some "care, patience, care, and love" in daily chats. If you and a girl are in the same city, and you say something like "It's been cold lately, remember to wear more clothes" while chatting, it will have a different meaning to the girl. Women are emotional beings and they are easily moved by these words. Over time, they will develop a good impression of you.
2. Romantic things
Every girl yearns for romance, and romance in the online world is far more convenient than in real life. In fact, romance can be found everywhere, as long as you feel it with your heart. Romantic things online can save money and make girls silly and happy. It is really a cost-effective thing. Therefore, you should think carefully about how to chat with girls. When chatting with girls, you should always think about girls. No matter where you talk, remember to add "When the time comes, you and I...", so that even if the girl is angry, Also willing to listen.
3. Appropriate "playing hooligan"
There is a saying that women will not love men unless they are bad. After chatting with a girl to a certain extent, if you show politeness again, it would be too inappropriate. You have done a lot before, and the final goal is to catch her. So at this point, we can be a little shameless so you can get closer. How to chat with girls after getting to know them well? It’s absolutely okay to take advantage of the language appropriately. Boys are very lustful, shameless and self-taught.
