It is very common for girls to say they don’t want to fall in love. They may not want to fall in love easily for various reasons. As intelligent men, we need to respond to them with a high emotional intelligence attitude. Let’s take a look at how to respond.
Respect her choice
When a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love, the most important thing is to respect her choice. We can express our respect in some decent ways, such as: "I understand why you said you don't want to fall in love. Relationships need to be carefully considered. I will respect your choice" and so on. This kind of expression can make girls feel that you are an educated person without losing respect.
Understand her thoughts
The reason why girls say they don’t want to fall in love may be because of their previous love experiences Worse, it may be because she is busy with work or life, or just because she thinks her relationship needs more time to mature. Whatever the case may be, we deserve to get a real sense of what she's thinking. Try asking some questions, listening to her answers, and responding reasonably and appropriately.
Express your feelings appropriately
When a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love, we can also express our feelings appropriately to let the other party feel our sincerity and frankness. However, you need to be careful not to be too forceful in the way you express your feelings, nor to show disappointment or blame. We can say something sincere and respectful, such as "Although I understand why you don't want to fall in love, after meeting a suitable person, I still want to try to develop a relationship."
Accept the result calmly
Finally, we need to accept the girl’s decision calmly with a high emotional intelligence attitude. Whether the other person doesn't want to fall in love for the time being, or he already has someone he likes, we all need to stay calm and rational, and don't force our feelings unnecessarily. Everything is determined, and sometimes our efforts are not rewarded. At such times, we need to learn to let go, enlarge our world, and start a new life.
