When you are excited to chat with a girl, the girl tells you that she is bored. Note that there may be several meanings here. One possibility is that the girl thinks the topic you are chatting with is boring and she doesn’t want to continue chatting with you. One is that the girl is really bored now and has nothing to do, and wants you to date her or something like that. The following is a subtext analysis of how a girl should respond when she says she is bored.
1. Switch the topics that girls like.
Many boys don’t know much about the topics that girls like. They just take it for granted that girls will like it, so they talk to girls all by themselves. They want to talk, but the girl doesn’t want to listen at all, so she uses words like boring to hint to the boy that it’s time to change the topic. If this is the case, boys need to first reflect on whether there is really a problem with their topic (girls don't like you, then she may use boredom to stop you and end the chat with you), if it is really the case , then you have to think about what girls usually like to say, what they like to post in their circle of friends, and use these aspects to find topics that girls like, and then start a chat. For example:
Girl: So boring!
Boy: Haha, it’s a bit boring to talk to you about this. By the way, have you watched the in-depth investigation of the nanny arson case in Hangzhou recently?
Girls: After reading a little bit, I feel very scared to think about it!
Boy: Yes, now everyone is discussing whether it is true. If it is true, it would be too scary.
If a girl usually likes to share some hot topics with you, then you can share with her what has been a hot topic recently. Topic, and then everyone shares what they saw. As long as the conversation starts, the girl will chat with you endlessly.
2. Take the initiative to ask girls out
If there is nothing wrong with the chat topics between you and girls, and the topics you talk about are all girls like, and your chat interaction is also very good, but it may be a girl It's really boring. Even chatting with you can't comfort her lonely little heart. In this case, you can send an invitation request to the girl and see if she will agree.
Of course, you also need to be skillful in your invitation. One is that the invitation location must be interesting to the girl and cannot be too far away from the girl. Otherwise, the girl may find it troublesome and not want to go out. For example:
Girl: So boring!
Boy: I’m bored too. How can two boring people just chat on the Internet? How about we go out to eat hot pot at night?
Girl: Okay, let’s meet somewhere. I happen to want to eat hot pot too.
Boy: How about the xxx hot pot near your home? Many Internet celebrities have been there to check in. It is said to be pretty good.
Girl: Then it’s a happy decision.
If a girl likes food and spicy food, then you can’t go wrong asking her to have hot pot, and she will usually accept the date.
3. Listen to the girl’s boredom
If the girl is not familiar with her yet, even if she is really bored, she may not come out if you ask her out. In this case, you are completely You can listen to girls' boredom and guide girls to express their boredom to you. Slowly, the distance between you and girls will become closer. For example:
Girl: I feel so bored!
Boy: Why are you bored? Are you dissatisfied with life?
Girls: Actually, because it’s xxx
When girls are willing to talk to you about this, you will seem to have Sharing some common secrets will invisibly bring you and the girl closer. Maybe she will agree to it the next time you ask her out?
