In the process of getting along with girls, the most common sentence that boys have heard is probably that girls say they don’t feel anything. What is the truth behind girls saying they don’t feel anything? After hearing a girl say "I don't feel it", should boys continue to pursue girls? Is it possible to be with girls?
1. When a girl says she doesn’t feel anything, it’s a rejection
Don’t feel anything? It is a very definite rejection without any room for error. If you want to restore the essence of not feeling it, you need to go back to your chat and what words were said that caused the girl to say this sentence.
For example: What do you think of me? I quite like you.
Girl: No feeling.
This is a confession. Girls reject it directly without any mercy. They don’t need to consider your feelings, and they don’t care whether you are embarrassed or not.
A sentence without any emotion.
Even, she feels disgusted in her heart and wants to cut off contact with you quickly, hoping that you will stop disturbing her.
2. Girls are not interested in you
If a girl says she is not interested, it means that she is interested in you. Not interested, even disgusted. Pushing the chat history forward again: Have you ever talked about some topics that girls find objectionable? For example: pushing forward, chatting about dirty topics, making frivolous remarks, joking too much... But, the problem came again. Why can some boys chat with girls about ambiguous topics from the beginning, and the girls are still very happy?
Okay. Let's push forward: the girl is very happy, which shows that she doesn't mind the boy saying ambiguous words to her. She is happy and in a good mood, which means the window is very good. She is very interested in boys, and boys are very attracted to girls. Back to the question above: Girls are disgusted.
Conclusion: From the beginning, boys have not attracted girls, and girls are not interested in boys. Therefore, it is said that there is no feeling.
3. Girls think you are not a good candidate
Regardless of men and women, if you are not interested in things, No one will be interested. Therefore, if you want to chase a girl, the prerequisite is: make her interested in you. But being interested is not enough.
In love, we are looking for a partner, maybe even a lifelong partner. You need to know as many relevant factors as possible about the other party. Such as: height, what you look like, personality, name, age, family status, career, where you go, whether you speak humorously, how much you know, where you have been, what you like, what movies you like to watch... .etc. everything about the other person.
The more you know, the more transparent you will become in the eyes of the other party, which means the more secure you will be. At this time, a psychological evaluation will also appear in the other party's mind. Assess your value now and in the futurecome value. Let’s go back to the original question: when a girl says she doesn’t feel anything.
Summary of the truth about girls saying they don’t feel anything:
1. The early attraction is not done well, what you want If you show it to a girl, she won't be interested, or maybe you made a mistake in showing it, so the girl says she doesn't feel it.
2. You can’t clearly judge the level of a girl’s interest in you. When a girl is not interested in you, you will engage in random chatting, pushing, and frivolity.
3. Confessing love at an inappropriate stage causes psychological pressure on girls.
4. The girl’s psychological evaluation shows that the other person is a worthless boy and doesn’t want to have any more contact with you. I’ll kill you as soon as possible.
Therefore, after a girl says that she has no feelings for you, the boy needs to reflect on the mistakes he has made, then build attraction, and screen out girls who have window resources for you, a window for chat judgment, and a stage of understanding. , and then attack.
