Some fans asked: Is it the behavior of diaosi to chase girls and stalk them?
Regarding this question, let me first talk about my own opinion. In my opinion, it is indeed the behavior of diaosi. The most important thing you should not use when chasing a girl is stalking, so if you want to successfully win over the girl you like, don't use this method.
Then some friends may ask, how should I chase girls?
In fact, the answer is We have emphasized many times before that attraction is the core of chasing girls!!!
So how can you attract girls to get close to you?
First of all, you have to learn to discover your own. Value!
Let’s talk about a knowledge point: the person you like is not left by you to control it or be humble, but because there is a certain point in you that she needs, and it is within her reach Within the range you reach, this point of yours cannot be replaced by others and has the greatest energy. This is called value.
And you can use this point to continue to attract her or make her rely on you. This is called value maximization.
If I use the word "value" or "interest" in a relationship, some people will definitely argue with me and say that they are indifferent to reality. I can only say that the level of standing is different, and the level of viewing is also different. You can't see it The level it reaches does not mean that it does not exist.
Many things are not very gentle when you break them down. I can talk about them in a gentle way, but this is not accurate.
A few additional points:
1. Values ??and interests are not as simple as just including material needs, but also include spiritual needs. , cognition, feeling, thought...spiritual needs are also values, and they are of great value.
2. You must understand your advantages and amplify them. Some friends don’t have this understanding at all. By improving your understanding, in addition to being clear and confident, you can also avoid detours.
3. If the other person says you are strong because of your ability, it is because she cannot control you, not your problem.
4. It is normal for you to control the other person in a relationship, but you must have the right way to guide it. If you are always timid in a relationship, don't dare to care about anything, and don't dare to lose your temper, then this person is probably wrong. Trust your intuition and feelings.
