There are many boys who are afraid of falling in love because of their low self-esteem. As they get older and are still single, they are secretly anxious and unable to do anything. What should they do? Inferiority is due to a lack of correct understanding of themselves. , the emotional experience caused by underestimating oneself when comparing with others, which is a psychological defect. What should a boy with low self-esteem do if he wants to fall in love?
What should he do if he is afraid of falling in love because of low self-esteem?
Sometimes, our low self-esteem is because of our inner feelings Afraid, but it only stops at fear, so you might as well analyze it, where do you feel inferior to yourself?
1. Appearance issue
Your appearance is achieved by 30% natural talent, 30% grooming, and 40% daily exercise. Even if your natural appearance is not that outstanding. It doesn't matter, fitness, sports, men, sunshine, health and cleanliness are your greatest appearance. As long as you save some time playing games and go out for exercise, sunshine is the value that attracts women.
2. Wealth issues
Many boys think that girls focus on material wealth and feel that their wealth is not enough. Attract girls' attention. Maybe your family conditions are not something you can choose, and you are not the second generation, but you can choose to work hard on your own, and you can gain wealth by working hard. If you are a student, it doesn't matter. If you study hard now, work hard to experience and adapt to society, you can also earn wealth. Moreover, although there are indeed money-worshiping girls, there are also many good girls who do not value material conditions so much.
3. Speech and behavior
If you feel that your speech and behavior are not generous and natural enough. It doesn't matter, talk to girls more, try harder to speak, practice, think about it before talking to girls, speak politely, and things will get better slowly. People must have self-confidence. If you really don’t have self-confidence, you can slowly exercise it. You can treat everyone as cabbage and you won’t be afraid when you speak.
4. Mentality
Some boys have low self-esteem not because of external conditions, but because they feel uncomfortable when getting along with girls. There is an inferiority complex. In fact, in the relationship between men and women, both parties are equal. There is nothing to feel inferior to. We are all the same. Only by believing in yourself can you show your infinite charm to girls.
What should you do if you are afraid of falling in love because of your low self-esteem? Think carefully about the main problem of your low self-esteem, and if you find the problem, you can slowly correct it. I hope boys with low self-esteem can overcome their ownInferiority mentality, analyze your own heart, "You actually have nothing to feel inferior to." There is nothing to be afraid of in being dignified when getting along with girls.
