The term "dog licking" must be familiar to everyone, but what I want to say is that I do not want my fans to play the role of a licking dog in love. After all, most lickers Dogs are all humble, and once they are humbled, they have no initiative, so today the editor will bring you a guide on how to practice dog licking to help you not be humble in front of the goddess.
First of all, how to get yourself out of the vicious cycle of "licking dogs"?
1. Shape your own attraction Power
Love is when two people attract each other. If one party kneels down and licks passively, it is difficult to have a good result. Then you have to think about two points from yourself:
What are your own advantages?
What other shining points do you need to attract him?
If you feel that your appearance is not good enough, then go to the gym and improve yourself. Lift up your spirit, right?
She is a foodie, so you should learn cooking, baking, and making desserts, right?
Shaping your own attractiveness is not only for him but also for yourself. In the process of slowly getting better, your person will also become sunny, happy and positive.
2. Don’t expose your sense of need!
The biggest mistake we make is actually to If the other party's exposed need is too strong, not only will the other party have no interest in you, but they will also gradually become more wary of you because of the pressure, resulting in the inability to get to know you well.
Then try to do the following things today:
1. Learn to say no - there are some things that are inconvenient for you to do, or things that you are not happy to do, or things that are unreasonable. , try to refuse.
2. Just go as far as you want - when you give and care, measure the degree of your relationship with the other person, and don't cross the line until you go as far as you want. Use friends as the boundary, and the other person will gradually stop guarding against you. , may try to understand you, and then I will truly feel and thank you for your concern.
3. Don’t move yourself—when you feel like helping to do something, don’t think that this thing will definitely move the other person. This will make the other person feel pressured, and you will also feel the pressure. You will be bruised and bruised. Only when you love yourself can you know how to love others, but you won't be able to touch yourself.
3. Learn to let go
I know this is difficult, and many people around you may also advise you. Give up, but what I want to say is not to simply give up, but to hope that when you let go, you can improve yourself, both externally and internally. You are just letting go for a short time.
In this process, no matter what the other party is because of yourIs there any reaction to "missing"? When a person no longer centers on him and a brand new you appears in front of him, I believe he will be emotional and touched. Only then will you discover that you Only when you truly have the ability to let go - the choice is yours.
