Many singles believe that chasing girls is the prerogative of rich and beautiful people. This is actually a trap, and they set limits for themselves. Even if they step out of the active stage, they often adopt the wrong method. They are not confident to begin with and fall into deeper self-denial due to the setback of failure. Repeatedly, the bright flowers have already been collected by those industrious bees and butterflies, and the rest are ruined flowers and willows.
Wrong method one: Keep trying to please
Many singles chase girls with the mindset of constantly giving and satisfying. What the other party needs, even spending tens of thousands without even touching the girl's hand! After many scumbags have grasped the mentality of this kind of men, they create a spare tire pool, post what they want to buy on WeChat, and comment below with licks. The dog will deliver the gift directly to your door.
Continuously and unconditionally please, this method of chasing girls is what people call "dog licking". Why is this golden rule that has been tried and true in ancient times ineffective now? Now that men and women are equal, girls will no longer regard this kind of dedication as a kind of attention, but as an ordinary step in pursuit, that is, your "please" is what you should of.
If a behavior is taken for granted, it will lose its value, just like people take their parents' efforts for granted.
Wrong method two: Humor = chasing girls
Quite a few single men believe that they can Showing your humor is the only way to chase girls. If boys still believe in this concept, they should think about it. If girls really like humorous people, why don’t they marry Yue Yunpeng?
In real life, many humorous people often make people laugh. Everyone laughed, but they were still single. Many people who were not humorous could move in and out of the flowers freely. Humor can only make a girl laugh, but it has nothing to do with making her fall in love with you! In fact, many girls admit that they like humorous boys, but this is actually the halo effect of love and a subjective prejudice after falling in love with a boy.
Wrong method three: give up if you have no money or appearance
To chase a girl, you don’t have to have money and appearance! In real life, single people buy gifts and send flowers to girls, but are "cut off" by a bad person who is not as good as themselves. Such things often happen. Money and looks are indeed important, but scumbag girls who only care about these two things basically have no need to pursue them. Many girls value a boy's "personality characteristics" more.
Personality characteristics are the "Law of Attraction" in many flirting teachings. External attraction is money and appearance, while internal attraction is a person's personality characteristics. This is why many male stars cheat. The same reason why you will be reviled, these male stars all lack money and good looks, but his behavior makes him lose his personality, and no girls will like him. The above are some common examples of wrong ways to chase girls. 99% of singles fall into this trap. Remember to avoid them when flirting with girls.
