Falling in love and breaking up are complementary to each other. If there is no breakup, the value of love will not be shown. If there is no love, breakup will lose its meaning. How to avoid breakup is something that everyone must pay attention to in the process of love. You need to pay more attention to these aspects so that you can have a love that doesn't break up.
1. Refuse to bring up old scores whenever there is a quarrel
"What did you do to that boy the year before last?" .", "You made it clear a few months ago.", "It doesn't matter who you were with in the past." If you only blame each other for the past when you quarrel, it will only change the atmosphere. Even more stalemate.
When two people fall in love, they should hope to move forward. If they always think about the past and criticize each other, everyone has their forbidden areas that they don’t want to mention again. Once they touch the landmine, they will start to quarrel. It might get out of hand.
2. Refuse to tell sarcastic words
Men may have the habit of duplicity. Saying so is just selling off, don't Let the other person know what you are thinking, and say it is just to amuse the girl, so that the other person will not see through you at any time. But think about it, no matter men or women, it’s like guessing riddles with the other half around them every day. Playing this kind of game is too tiring and won’t last long.
"Do you like this gift?" Don't insist on saying that you do if you don't like it. If you love someone, try to tell them what you think, so that you can understand each other better.
3. Refuse a relationship and think about ending it as soon as it begins
Finding a person and deciding to be with her for the rest of your life may be a fantasy, and our views on love and marriage are not what they used to be. To be committed to the end, however, this does not mean that falling in love is just for fun, and when you are tired of playing, you will abandon the other person. It is regarded as a necessary experience in life.
Undoubtedly, every partner will always let you experience some things to make you grow, but when you are in love, if you only think about the ending, it will definitely end. Not only will you not be able to invest and enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love, but more importantly The most important thing is that you don't waste the other person's efforts and time. It's very unfair. The other person may want to spend a lifetime with you, so it's not good for both parties.
4. Refuse to care about your lover
Do I love you more? Or do you love me more? Couples always like to ask each other this question, fearing that they will suffer a loss if they give more than the other person, or that one day they will choose to leave because they don't love them enough. But should partners calculate this way? If you love the other person, you will only want to be good for him wholeheartedly, so what if you pay more.
Otherwise, your quarrels will easily involve small things in life, "I paid for yesterday's meal, you have to pay for it today.", even one meal.You also have to calculate the meal with each other. If you love someone, don't worry about the little things in life. Otherwise, it is meaningless and unworthy to make trouble from small things to big ones.
