Feelings are mutual. In a normal relationship, both men and women have to pay something. So what does it mean if you go out to eat with your girlfriend and she never pays for it?
1. Look at your girlfriend’s emotional investment in you
Some girls may not be able to have sex with boys. My friend is very conscious about paying for meals because she feels that she has given a lot emotionally, so she feels that spending her boyfriend's money is nothing. For example, your girlfriend never pays when you go out to eat together, but your girlfriend still pays a lot for shopping and cooking in private. There is no need to care about this, because boys are being petty.
But there is another situation when a girlfriend never pays for meals, that is, the girl does not pay you emotionally or spend money on you. This may mean that she does not care about you at all. !I definitely treat you as a spare tire or a meal ticket.
2. Your girlfriend has no money
Some girls have lower wages, and their family circumstances may also Not too good. In this case, she might not pay for it when we go out to eat. Or your girlfriend has no job at all and relies on you to live. These circumstances have resulted in her having no money to eat, so of course she needs to pay for it.
3. Your girlfriend is more traditional
From the perspective of traditional girls, if you eat with a boy, the boy should pay for it (don’t ask me why, my older generation is like this) This kind of thinking does not rule out that your girlfriend has also been indoctrinated into this kind of thinking and believes it deeply). However, although this kind of traditional girlfriends are older in thinking, they still have feelings for you, and if they recognize you, they will treat you wholeheartedly without worrying about betrayal.
4. Your girlfriend doesn’t love you enough
There are indeed girls who obviously don’t love boys enough, but Still with boys. She enjoys her boyfriend's kindness to her. In fact, she doesn't regard the boy as her boyfriend at all. She only knows how to enjoy but not pay. Such a girl has no intention of being with a boy for a long time, because she has not paid, so she can just leave when they separate; and only when she has paid and invested, will she cherish you.
Boys, if your girlfriend never pays for meals, you need to first analyze the reasons why she does this. If you feel uncomfortable in your heart, there is no need to stay silent and sulky by yourself. Talk to her about it. If she dislikes you for being stingy, then sorry, she may be talking about herself. If she still doesn't care about your feelings, it just means she doesn't love you enough!
