When you have been chasing a girl for a long time, but she has been delaying in confirming a relationship with you. Every time you mention it, she will avoid it or say that she is not ready. Faced with girls dragging on uncertain relationships, many boys begin to waver in their determination to pursue girls.
The reasons why girls are not sure about relationships
1) The reason why girls have been dragging on about being unsure about relationships is that the original In my consciousness, I just feel that you are not good enough for her.
2) A girl who is only flirting with you but does not have a confirmed relationship with you may just regard you as her spare tire.
3) It is possible that girls are slow to warm up, and your current performance is not enough for girls to establish a relationship with you.
4) If you are not sure about the relationship, it may be that the girl wants to test your sincerity. Only the one who persists to the end can win her heart.
What should girls do if they are not sure about the relationship?
1. Improve your own image, your appearance has always been This is something that girls care about very much, because girls also care about what others think of their boyfriends. Higher appearance can make girls more confident to be with you.
2. Take the initiative to contact girls. If you and the girl have been in the ambiguous stage with no progress, then try to take the initiative to contact girls more often, take her on dates, travel, and have more common experiences.
3. Give a girl a sense of security, take care of her, coax her, understand her, think about her, care about her, tolerate her, and love her. When you do these, she will naturally put herself Entrusted to you.
4. Establish common interests and hobbies. The so-called "husband and wife compatibility", "good match" and "three views" are all based on a certain degree of common ground.
5. The pursuit of excellence and the psychology of admiration are the underlying logic of women’s mate selection. When you become more and more outstanding, she will like you more and more.
When a girl drags on and is unsure about the relationship, many boys may feel that they are being used as a backup and feel that the girl She is a scumbag... Such a way of thinking is actually shirking responsibility and evading the essence!
Even if a girl is a scumbag, then she can drag on in an uncertain relationship, which also proves that you are prepared The potential of the fetus. If you are not able to do something, you should turn to yourself. Think about why you are the spare tire? People often emphasize that chasing girls is not about kneeling and licking them, but about conquering them through their own attractiveness. If you are unsuccessful, it just proves that you are not attractive enough. Love is not given, it must be earned by yourself!
