Question:
I currently have a property and a loan in my name, and I don’t like to socialize. I think I have good conditions, and the requirements for finding a girlfriend are not high, as long as I Just have a good personality, decent looks, and not be materialistic. But I could never find a girlfriend. How can I find a suitable girlfriend according to my standards?
Answer:
You start by talking about yourself Not too demanding, just take a closer look. Your requirements are really not low. What you said is very high.
First of all, girls must have decent looks and good personalities, which has eliminated a large number of girls. And then they must not be materialistic. Then She definitely needs to be able to support herself, be financially independent, or have good family conditions. This condition will screen out a large number of girls.
Then when you go to choose, you will find:
Some girls will not require you to be rich, but they will require you to spend more time with her. You may feel that she is very coquettish. .
Some girls have very good personalities, but they are not very good-looking, and you look down on them.
Some girls are not materialistic and their income is not low. You do not need to bear too much economic pressure, but you may not even be able to enter her social circle.
If there really is a girl who you say does not have high requirements, a girl who has a good temperament, is not materialistic, and has decent looks, you can ask around. Who doesn’t expect such a good girl to be a girlfriend? Since In this way, such a girl must be very popular and will definitely meet many suitors. You stand among this group of suitors, how do you stand out?
If you want a girl to like you, you have to give her something A reason to like you:
1. Are you humorous and sentimental, and can you give girls good emotional value?
2. You still have a house and a car, so that girls can live their lives. Worry-free?
3. Still love life and can lead girls to experience all kinds of interesting people and things?
4. Still be down-to-earth, progressive and responsible, making girls feel stable and reliable What?
You have to give girls a reason to choose you, and if you want girls to choose you, you must set higher standards for yourself and not have a "perfunctory" mentality in life. . The problem is that you don't like messing around very much, and you have such high standards for the other person, so you just want to be casual and don't have so many requirements.
He said that you can’t find a good woman. It’s not that good women are blind and can’t see you, it’s just that you have too low standards for yourself and cannot attract her attention.
There is a saying that with the low level of diligence of most people,In essence, it is not the turn to fight for skills. Isn't it the same in the relationship between men and women? When you really want a good girlfriend, you should enrich your life, be enterprising, and avoid ordinary life situations.
If you are ready and have become a motivated boy, when you meet the girl you are attracted to, you will not watch the other person being taken away by others. You must know that opportunities are Leave it to those who are prepared in advance. Don't think about why I can't find a girlfriend because my requirements are not high. Your requirements are actually quite high.
