I didn’t understand anything at the time! I should have judged her based on her actions, not just listened to her words... I should have realized that there was a lot of blood hidden behind her incompetent tricks. Warmth... It's a pity that I was too young at that time and didn't know how to love her. ——"The Little Prince"
In fact, the reason why many boys are single is not because of their own lack of strength, but because they lack the ability to love girls! They only have the emotion to like a girl, but they fail to have love. A girl's ability (behavior).
1. Display
Your display in front of girls will be determined to a large extent. The key to whether you can be her boyfriend or not. Just like the first time you look at a girl, it determines whether she can make you feel something!
How to create a good presentation?
1) Let girls see you Motivated.
2) Let girls see your confidence and sense of responsibility.
3) Show a mature attitude.
4) Express yourself appropriately.
The above displays are the impressions you bring to girls. These impressions can easily cause girls to have stereotypes or prejudices against you. If you want to establish a romantic relationship with girls, you need to show them in front of girls. Give a good display.
2. Pursue methods
Step by step. Many boys chase girls just thinking that they can catch them in one fell swoop, without any patience or planning. Confess your love to a girl as soon as you get started, give her various gifts as soon as you meet her, and start touching her as soon as you go on a date...
Obviously, it is difficult to chase a girl like this, unless the girl falls in love with you at first sight or has a strong crush on you. strong.
Most relationships are a progression of interactions, recognition, affection, attraction, intimacy... Don’t try to cross the line and upgrade the relationship, such as renting a house right after the date.
In the early stages of dating a girl, you should regard your relationship as [friends], get to know each other during the relationship, and enhance your relationship. However, let it naturally become a [close friend] and then a [lover].
Don’t tell a girl right away—be my girlfriend! What other choice does a girl have besides rejecting you?
If you didn’t “chase her” at the beginning "She, how could she reject you?
3. Confirm the relationship
Many boys just think How to confess to determine the relationship between two people? In fact, confession is not a way to determine the relationship, but a sign of the relationship.
To put it bluntly, confession is formalism. When you are with a girlWhen we are already lovers, it doesn't matter whether we express our feelings or not.
If you always want to use confession to establish a romantic relationship when chasing a girl, then it is really a bit "naive".
In the process of dating a girl, I "accidentally" held her hand, "accidentally" kissed her, "accidentally"... Whether the girl admits it or not, in her heart I have already recognized you, so confessing is just a formality.
Therefore, you must understand that [girlfriend] is a fact, not a declaration.
