The essence of a quarrel is a struggle for power, that is, you have to listen to me. One side wants to impose its will on the lover, but the other party is unwilling to accept it, so a quarrel will occur. Appropriate quarrels can deepen communication, but excessive quarrels can hurt feelings! How should couples face quarrels?
Why do quarrels happen? Sad feelings
When a person is emotionally excited, the sympathetic nerves are excited, and the person will be in a state of stress, and various functions will increase, such as increased adrenaline secretion, increased blood pressure, accelerated heartbeat, and increased lung capacity. wait.
When you quarrel, your emotions are of course in an extremely unstable state, and your voice will naturally become louder, and you will express your dissatisfaction loudly and angrily.
When emotionally out of control, quarreling couples are more likely to say things that deliberately irritate each other. This confrontational attitude and provocative language will leave a very deep impression on each other and may change the relationship between them to a great extent. each other’s opinions.
Once a couple quarrels excessively, these "bad" opinions will destroy each other's goodwill and trust.
What to do if you become strangers after a quarrel
A meaningful quarrel can help each other understand each other better.
If both lovers have a common purpose - to stay together till old age. Then all quarrels should be based on this as the bottom line, be less unreasonable, less preoccupied and take a long-term view, and look forward to each other's future based on reality.
If the damage caused by the quarrel is so deep that it is impossible to ignore it, then the relationship is very dangerous.
If you want to restore the relationship between two people, you need to take the initiative to express your love, re-establish intimacy and trust, and use love to warm the scars of the past. This process will also make you cherish the lover in front of you more.
How couples can avoid quarrels
Quarrels often stem from "wanting to prove that you are right" ", if you want to be reasonable in love, this will happen: prove you are right → quarrel → admit your mistake → get back together.
Then you will find that every time you want to be reasonable, it ends up becoming an emotional issue of admitting your mistake.
Therefore, when falling in love, it is really not recommended to be too serious, but to understand each other more.
The following are some ways for couples to avoid quarrels:
1) Understand their respective personalities;
2) Do not provoke each other;
< p> 3) Don’t make malicious assumptions about the other party;4) Don’t treat the other party with a bad attitude;
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5) You need to stay rational when you have disagreements;
6) Learn to stop when you argue;
