In the process of chasing girls, it is very normal to encounter rejection once or twice. Maybe this is what people call "duplicity". Even if you agree in your heart, you can't admit it with your mouth. Because the ratio of men to women in China is inconsistent, girls often have more capital to choose. Suitors will be repeatedly screened by girls. Some are given a good guy card to show respect, some are treated as spare tires without knowing it, and some are ignored. The response was vague "We are not suitable".
Some brothers may have given up and become discouraged when they saw the sentence "We are not suitable", secretly God is hurt. I had no idea that there was a lot of meaning behind this sentence. Generally speaking, girls have three responses to boys’ confessions: 1. Agree. 2. Refuse. 3. Vague answers.
Vague answers can reveal a girl’s attitude towards you. Obviously, if a girl says we are not suitable, it is the third type of response. This means that her attitude towards you is relatively friendly, but she does not like you. extent. At this time, the boy should try to bring the two of you closer and let her see your attraction.
Vague answers also leave opportunities for boys, because girls’ sixth sense is very accurate, usually for suitors. You can all tell if you are your cup of tea. Saying "We are not suitable" is because a girl doesn't understand you deeply enough, and her lack of security makes her question your sincerity. What boys need to do is to use actions to build trust and dependence and let her know that you really love her.
We are not suitable and may be denying your attraction. If you have been together for a while, but she still can't experience the feeling of love in you, she will also say something like this. When a boy faces this situation, he shouldn't try to reason with her, unless he talks about something that's appropriate. Instead, you should try to improve your attractiveness. The ancients said that only by cultivating yourself can you maintain a healthy family. This actually makes sense.
When a girl says she is not suitable, she may be testing you. It is difficult for boys to imagine the test girls put on their suitors. Some girls may like the quality of perseverance and will use it to test their suitors. So boys should continue to persevere. Chasing girls has never been a good fit. Boys have worked hard to be together, so don't give up and persevere. Chasing girls requires patience.
