In fact, falling in love is easy, but too many men lack love thinking. They either act too humble in front of girls, or act too pretentious in front of girls. These two extremes cause many men to be unable to find a partner. Get to the root of your girlfriend and fall in love, start by training your love thinking!
Attract girls' attention
In ancient times, there was a saying that "women won't love men unless they are bad", and today there is a saying that "a scumbag has no shortage of girlfriends, and an honest man is single forever". It makes people sigh that history is always surprisingly similar.
Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, bad men and scumbags have one thing in common. They know how to attract girls’ attention and make themselves attractive to the crowd.
Many boys can’t find girlfriends because they don’t attract girls’ attention. They are used to drowning in the crowd and become passers-by who can be replaced by anyone. This image is obviously not what girls like.
Therefore, if you want to pursue a girl or fall in love, you first need to attract the girl’s attention, let the girl start paying attention to you, start observing you, and even start to appreciate you!
Understand girls’ emotions
Many techniques for chasing girls emphasize that men think rationally, while women think emotionally. You need to pay attention to the thinking mode of girls, and you cannot get along with women the same way you get along with men!
The most specific manifestation is that when chatting with girls, many times girls complain to you about something and hope that It is you who can understand her emotions first and then think about how to solve the problem.
Many times when straight men hear this kind of complaint, they not only fail to understand girls’ emotions and do not solve the problem, but they also blame girls for being too negative, too dark, etc. This naturally makes it difficult for girls to like you. .
Create shared experiences
People are emotional animals. As long as they get along for a long time, feelings will naturally arise. , but this requires a prerequisite—creating shared experiences.
Therefore, chasing girls not only requires understanding each other, but also creating common experiences so that girls can have memories full of you, and these memories should be happy, joyful, and memorable.
When this kind of shared experience continues to accumulate, a girl’s feelings for you will naturally become deeper and deeper. Sometimes, the girl will take the initiative to be with you without you having to express her feelings.
Because the relationship is in place, other issues will be easily ignored. In psychology, this can also be regarded as the [halo effect], which is very effective in the process of chasing girls.
