For boys with low self-esteem, it is difficult for them to take the initiative to pursue girls. Sometimes, even if a girl takes the initiative to show affection for him, boys will deliberately alienate girls because of their low self-esteem. Girls understand that boys do not respond. After that, I naturally stopped thinking. If you are also a boy with low self-esteem, be sure to read the following sharing: What should a boy with low self-esteem deliberately stay away from girls?
1. Change the inferiority complex
Although inferiority complex is caused by the living environment for a long time, it is difficult to change it in a short time. But since your problem is low self-esteem, you have to overcome this problem yourself. You need to solve it instead of expecting the girl to take the initiative to clarify the relationship or let the girl take care of your inferiority complex. And people with low self-esteem are poison. They not only poison themselves but also bring others down.
For boys with low self-esteem, they need to break through when facing the girl they like. You can ask her to watch a movie or climb a mountain. You can eat. Don't be afraid. Girls probably don't like men who are hesitant and timid. You have to be proactive. Maybe girls will like you too. The worst thing is that they just don't like you. It's really okay.
If it doesn’t work, then try to strike up conversations with various people in the elevator or on the street to practice your communication skills. After you break through yourself, look back and you will see that your initial inferiority complex and fear are all unnecessary. Yes, if you can break through and catch the girl you like, why not do it? To take a step back, even if you fail to chase girls, it will be an unexpected gain for you to break through your low self-esteem.
2. Treat her with a normal attitude
The reason why many boys with low self-esteem don’t dare to pursue girls is because they pursue and get along with them with a very caring attitude. His inferiority complex has hindered him from being able to use the topic when chatting with the girl he loves. For example, when chatting with the girl he likes, he always thinks:
Is it right for me to say this? Is it inappropriate for me to say this? Okay, will she be prejudiced against me if I do this... In this kind of fearful mood, he will deliberately alienate girls, because he can't control his lack of confidence in front of the girl he loves, leaving a bad impression on the girl. It's better to just watch her from a distance.
In fact, for boys with low self-esteem, it is better to treat girls normally when getting along, for example, when you ask her out, you can Seeing it as a normal interaction between friends, when chatting with her, she said that a new dessert shop opened in a certain place today is very good, should we go and try it? Or I want to buy a new dress, please help me get some advice. Remember to be natural, just think about how you would ask your friends to go out with you.
There is really no need to deliberately stay away from girls if you have low self-esteem. You can get along with them how you want to get along with them. Even if you fail, it will be an improvement for you.
