When it comes to the type of boys that girls like, they are usually handsome, responsible, reliable, have a stable and serious job, and are filial to the family... But if you ask you what kind of boys girls don’t like, you may be racking your brains. I can't even imagine it. Here, the editor feels that it is impossible for girls to like an emotionally unstable boy. Why would the editor say this? You will understand after reading this article!
1. Characteristics of emotionally unstable boys
Why are we talking about emotionally unstable boys? Let us first summarize from an objective level some characteristics of boys who cannot control their emotions:
1. When meeting a girl you like, you will express your love within a few days (girls will feel that such a relationship is not reliable) Score);
2. If you have any trouble chasing a girl, you will show it, such as posting hints in WeChat Moments, sharing songs to express your loss (girls think why a grown man is so fragile, can he be relied on in the future);
3. Always ask girls questions with care. (It’s annoying enough to have a caring mother, how about another one?)
A common problem among emotionally unstable boys is: hiding Don't stop things. Most of them are engaged in ordinary jobs and have little job prospects, because people with higher job status tend to have more mature mentality and are good at hiding their emotions. Just look at the people around you who are very generous at work. To put it bluntly, girls will subconsciously feel that your material value is very low, and they will not have a better life with you.
2. Emotionally unstable boys feel unreliable
From a spiritual perspective: If a boy cannot control his emotions, the most direct feeling he brings to girls is Unreliable and immature. Girls will feel that you cannot rely on you and feel insecure. Because how can someone guide and attract girls if they can't even control their own emotions? Girls are born with a strong mentality. They hope that their partner can lead them, instead of coaxing their partner like a mother. So some girls will directly reject the pursuit of such boys.
When encountering emotionally unstable boys pursuing themselves, girls who are slow to warm up will be very hesitant, and girls with high rankings will test these boys, such as deliberately saying that we are better friends, and deliberately refusing. Your invitation is deliberately trying to find fault with you. The underlying logic is to test boys' emotional control and adaptability.
Finally, emotionally unstable boys often find it difficult to discover their own problems after failing to pursue girls, and always think that they are other problems. caused. So I have always said that you must learn to control your emotions, because at least you can make girls feel that you are a man who has control and control. And when you have this ability, believe me, you can't be any worse.
