No one’s money comes with the wind. No matter how rich you are, before dating a girl, it is still very important to know how to judge whether she likes you or your money. If you are in a situation where you are not sure, you can analyze from the following points to see if she is cheating you of money.
1. Only consider yourself and never pay
In a relationship, spend money It's a normal thing.
If she can’t treat you to a movie after you treat her to dinner, or she won’t treat you back next time, and this happens again and again, then you need to be careful, she is probably trying to get something for nothing. Wolf.
On any holiday, you spend money and give gifts, and she doesn’t give any material feedback other than thanks, which shows that she doesn’t like you.
2. Accept gifts that are beyond your ability.
For example, if your monthly salary Five thousand, give her a package of thirty or forty thousand, this gift is beyond your ability.
If she accepts it as a matter of course and does not consider where you got the money, then she must not like you. If she likes someone, she will definitely consider the other person.
We cannot accept your gift for granted and feel at ease knowing that this gift will seriously affect your quality of life and ability to bear it.
3. Bring your best friend to join in the fun
Face is very important in front of friends. If her friends are present, you must spend money to support her face.
Take her to a high-end restaurant for dinner, and be sure to show off to your friends, or bring her friends directly to join you in a banquet, dinner party, KTV, etc. It is said that it is fun to have more people.
Actually, I just want to save some face in front of my friends, and I feel that this boyfriend can still take advantage of me.
4. Borrow money when you open your mouth
This is a sign, which usually appears in the first three After performance.
This is also a turning point in female psychology.
The material things in the past could no longer satisfy her psychology, and her desire was amplified at this moment. If she had passively accepted it before, now she was actively asking for it.
It’s understandable if you need money for an urgent matter, but if it’s due to consumption desires or other reasons, you should handle it with caution.
Don’t think that asking for money is a sign of need from you.
Generally speaking, girls will not be embarrassed to ask for money even when facing their boyfriends. As the saying goes, the more familiar they are, the harder it is to open their mouths. That's it.
5. I am very stingy with you
I act very generous in front of others, and I don’t care about small money.
Act very generous and generous on the outside, but in front of you, you have to worry about hundreds and hundreds of people. In turn, you are said to be unmanly, too stingy, and care about everything.
Give gifts to others. If you treat others to dinner without even frowning, they may ask you to reimburse them.
Giving the same gift to others feels unworthy, but giving it to you feels unworthy and unnecessary.
If she is satisfied with all three of the above points, please turn around and leave happily.
