Although it is best to involve less emotions in a relationship, if your girlfriend asks you to lend money, many boys will lend money to their girlfriends for the purpose of maintaining their relationship. It doesn't matter if you can keep going with your girlfriend, or if the amount of money you borrow is not large. But what should you do if your girlfriend borrows a large amount of money and you have broken up now, but she doesn’t repay the loan?
1. It depends on how much money she borrowed. If the amount is relatively large, keep the transfer records and chat screenshots to call the police. Keep records of your loan to her, such as audio recordings or transfer records or written records. These can be used as evidence in court. If the number is small, you may consider yourself unlucky and the best you can do is post this person in your circle of friends.
2. Tell her current employer about the money she owes you, or tell your mutual friends: "Hey, that girl of yours" My friend lent me money and refused to pay it back. If you see her, ask me for it. I'm afraid she will keep this debt to pester me in the future." It's a constant reminder and a crazy hint. If your ex-girlfriend still wants to live a good life, she will not be able to withstand the pressure and return it to you.
3. If the amount is too much, just ask for it back directly. For example, you can tactfully find a reason to ask her to pay it back. If she doesn’t pay it back, it is more worthwhile to spend money to see someone clearly! (Transaction records are recorded for WeChat and Alipay transfers. Don’t say anything embarrassing or be shy. If you have done this once, you won’t be afraid. Come on.) If you don’t, take it as a lesson.
4. Ask her or her family directly for it. If you don’t return it, call the police and sue. Now it seems that chat records can also be used as evidence. If you can't find his parents, show it to his friends and let them know that this thief is an adult and there should be no need to file a lawsuit every now and then!
5. Find public accounts or self-media. If you have strong writing skills, write your own articles. If you can't find someone to write for you, you and the others will be replaced. Every bit of her (you have to decide how to measure it) is exposed to the eyes of the Internet. Post it every day, and use a more humorous way to complain. One day she will become popular~ Even if she is no longer shameless, at least you can remind other men. Don't let your child fall for this trick, as over time she won't be able to have a boyfriend.
6. If your girlfriend cannot pay the debt temporarily due to financial problems, you can collect part of it first, but if the amount is large and she deliberately defaults on repayment. If necessary, you can contact the police to help mediate, but your relationship will definitely be different.
Finally, during a relationship, if you are not absolutely sure that you will go with the other person, don’t involve money. If you feel: Hey, this is the person and you want to go with her, then borrow money. It doesn't matter. If we can't get together in the end, the small money doesn't matter, the big money should be found a way to make her pay it back.
