After a series of early efforts, the girl finally agreed to be your girlfriend. On the surface, it seems that there is no problem, but the newly established relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend is only the first step. If you do not behave well in the future, the same will happen to the girl. I can tell you that it’s not appropriate to break up with you. So how should a boy behave when he has just established a relationship as a boyfriend and girlfriend?
1. Chatting
When men and women first establish a relationship, their relationship is generally not that deep, and they need to rely on chatting to consolidate their relationship. The content of the chat must be consistent or inclusive. You can chat with her about what happens around you every day. When you see something interesting, you will immediately think of sharing it with her. Then in the same way, she will share it with you in turn, which can make up for the fact that you can understand each other when you are not together, and you can also see whether each other's opinions are consistent during the chat. When chatting, be sure to let her feel your enthusiasm and be sure to talk about topics she likes.
Of course, in addition to WeChat chat and the like, face-to-face chat is also very important, because no chat is more direct than face-to-face chat. When chatting face to face, both people can directly see each other's tone and attitude, and can also adjust their own chat atmosphere in time.
2. Dating
In addition to chatting, how can we not go on a date when we have just established a relationship between a boyfriend and girlfriend? Because they just got together, the emotional foundation between the two is not very stable, so they need to learn to deepen their relationship. When dating, try to choose events that the girl likes. You can accompany her to do things she likes. If she likes to go shopping, go shopping with her and carry her bags to help her; if she likes to eat, go explore delicious restaurants with her, or cook together, and then help her peel hard-to-pee things while eating ( For example, Crayfish); if she likes to watch dramas, watch them with her and discuss the plot, etc.; if she likes to travel, the two of us will make travel guides together, and then go out together.
3. Treat with attentiveness
Many boys are very attentive when chasing girls, constantly talking about love and giving gifts. , I am willing to spend money when I go out on a date... But after I actually establish a relationship with a girl as a boyfriend and girlfriend, my enthusiasm gradually cools down. What would girls think? Don’t you cherish it when you get it? You don't love her but you just want to sleep with her? All said that after a boyfriend and girlfriend have just established a relationship, the boy must maintain the same attitude before and after. How to treat the girl with your heart together, and treat her with your heart now. Don't let the girl feel that you have changed after you chased her, otherwise you still haven't. Development may break up.
In fact, when the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend was first confirmed, everyone was still in a stage of mutual exploration, even if you got along well before , or problems may arise during the love process. At this time,Boys need to be more tolerant and guidance.
