The circle of friends is the first step for many boys to understand girls, but it is also the first step for many girls to understand boys. So if the friend circle is too low, it is likely to ruin the first impression in the eyes of girls. So what kind of friend circle for boys will make girls disgusted?
p>1. Treat the circle of friends as a diary
There is a kind of boy who treats the circle of friends as his own diary. He writes everything in it, big and small, trivial, and he has to post his feelings in the circle of friends. Sometimes, or when something unhappy happens, he vents abuse in his circle of friends, as if the whole world owes him money. Late at night, I excerpted a few sad love sentences from the Internet, making it look like I had been hurt... Do you think you are not mainstream?
Every friend can see the updates in the circle of friends. , it is not your personal diary, and we are not obligated to absorb your negative emotions, understand?
Maybe the reason why many boys post these is because they subconsciously want to ask for comfort, care, and want others to pay attention to them. negative emotions... but others have no such obligation at all. When girls see you posting this on Moments, they will think that you are too emotional and immature.
2. Post various links and advertisements
The girls who just added you on WeChat are all through Moments know you, but when she opens your Moments, she finds all kinds of links, Pinduoduo, price bargains, official account articles...it seems devoid of emotion at all.
Then, the girl’s reaction must be: This guy is a loser. If your circle of friends is full of these, unless you are flirting with common friends and classmates in life, or if it is a strange girl you meet for the first time, then just the display in your circle of friends... you will die at the starting line. Nonsense, girls think you are a loser, will they still have the desire to chat with you? What annoys me the most is the people who constantly ask me to bargain, speed up, and give me a link to vote for my children, because they are all in their 70s The habit of using WeChat among those born in the 1980s and 1980s.
What about you? How old are you this year? Do you want to try changing your avatar to a lotus?
3. Flashy pretending to be literary
Girls like artistic boys very much, but they hate the arty boys. For example, these boys read a very hypocritical chicken soup on the Internet, such as what I have Story, do you have a drink? He felt it was very artistic, so he copied it to his circle of friends, making it look like he was cultured and sad, but in fact he was just moaning for nothing. This is really low.
Therefore, in the circle of friends, don’t deliberately show how artistic you are, just show your hard power and show your friends the results.
A high-quality circle of friends should convey good information to the other party. For example, if you post photos with your pets, it will show that you are very caring; if you post photos with many girls, it will show that you have social charm; If you post photos of your work, it will show that you are ambitious... In short, the surface content of the post is not important. What is important is what kind of personality it conveys behind the content.
