Pursuing girls is a process that every boy will go through, but how can you make a girl like you? Let’s take a look at the chat guide to pursue girls, learn it quickly!
1. Say hello
Before you start chatting, you must say hello first. You can use simple greetings, such as "Hello", "How are you doing", etc. This will make the girl feel that you are polite and will not appear too direct.
Of course, if you have known the girl for a while, you can choose a more cordial greeting according to the situation, such as "Hi , little cutie", "Good morning, beauty", etc.
2. Topic selection
It is very important to choose the appropriate topic in the chat. First, you need to understand the girl’s interests, hobbies and personality traits, and then choose the topic according to the situation. For example, if a girl likes music, then you can talk about her favorite singer or music type; if a girl likes traveling, then you can talk about where she has been or where she wants to go.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to avoid some sensitive topics, such as politics, religion, etc. These topics can easily cause controversy and conflict, which is not conducive to building a good relationship.
3. Listen carefully
In chatting, don’t just talk about your own affairs, but also listen carefully to what the girl has to say. When a girl talks, you can respond to her views appropriately or ask some questions. This will make the girl feel that you resonate with her and understand her better.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to showing your sincerity and kindness in chatting. If a girl has any difficulties or worries, she can provide some comfort and support appropriately.
4. Humor
Humor is an important factor in attracting girls. You can appropriately add some humorous elements to the chat, such as joking, teasing, etc. But be careful not to go overboard, or you may appear immature or disrespectful to the girl.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to the occasion and tone when using humorous elements. If a girl is talking about something serious, don't interrupt her train of thought, but respect her thoughts.
5. Care for details
In chatting, care for details is also very important. You can appropriately ask the girl some questions that care about her, such as "What delicious food did you eat today?" "How are you doing recently?" etc. This will make the girl feel your care and warmth.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to some small details during chatting, such as tone, expression, posture, etc. These can reflect your attitude and personality traits.
6. End the chat
At the end of the chat, be polite and appropriate. You can say goodbye with a simplePhrases, such as "goodbye", "good night", etc. If the girl needs help or advice, she can also provide some appropriate support.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to keeping in touch after you end the chat. You can send some text messages or WeChat messages appropriately to express your concern and blessings for the girl.
The above is the chat guide for pursuing girls, learn it quickly! Remember to be sincere, polite, and humorous when wooing a girl, but also pay attention to detail and a decent ending.
