Although some boys have been in many relationships, each relationship does not last long. In fact, it is because they have fallen into misunderstandings in love. Today I will analyze for you several major misunderstandings in love.
1. Don’t know how to maintain feelings
In the past, cars, horses and emails were all slow, and only love was enough in a lifetime. A person, but it is really different now. The way we receive information determines the way we think.
Look now, as long as your selfie is good and you post it on some dating apps, you will get a lot of attention from the opposite sex.
As long as both parties are attracted quickly and on a date, the relationship can be established immediately.
But such fast-food love lacks a process of mutual understanding. Once a relationship is established, you will slowly find that there are many things about the other person that you are not satisfied with.
When people have many choices, they will become inert, and of course they will choose the one with the least effort.
All I can think about is: It turns out that you are different from what I thought. It’s really a waste of my feelings.
So when encountering this situation, there is only one solution: break up, and the next one will be better.
2. Ignore the needs of the other party
Sometimes I really feel like I can’t keep up with the times. , regarding the comments made by many people on the Internet, I understand what they mean, but they know very well that people like to watch controversial content.
So they will write something like "If a man doesn't spend money on me, he doesn't like me" and so on.
What this leads to is that some people accept this information before forming their own mature values, so they think, well, I think so too.
Just like what I saw, girls have to be reserved or even aloof, and taking the initiative means being submissive. So some of the more honest boys started to act arrogant and aloof.
Even, let’s just talk about some girls. Some girls don’t know who gave them confidence, and they take it for granted when they accept gifts from others.
In the end, I felt annoyed, and never thought of returning the favor. This is a typical self-centered thing. Just make yourself happy and don't care about the feelings of others.
3. Unable to reconcile the needs of two people
Today’s relationships often become one a supply and demand relationship.
In other words, there is something in the other person that I need. Once this point disappears, there will be problems in the relationship.
For example, girls’ needs are to be treatedTogether, two people work together and help each other; boys' needs are to travel around the world and work hard.
Many men and women cannot deal with such different needs, so they have to regretfully break up, and the love cycle is naturally very short.
