In addition to romantic relationships, there are many friendship relationships between men and women. Is there pure friendship between opposite sexes? I can only say that there is probably no couple between a boy and girl who can guarantee that his feelings for her will not cross the gap of ordinary friends for a moment. Do you agree with this statement?
1. Is there pure friendship between opposite sexes?
Regarding this question, I interviewed ten boys and ten girls. The result was: ten boys said no, ten All the girls said yes. Through this survey, I discovered that men and women have completely opposite attitudes when it comes to whether there is pure friendship between men and women.
The truth is that boys approach girls as "friends" because they want to fall in love, while girls' feelings heat up step by step, starting from strangers, familiarity, friends, ambiguity, and finally lovers. . Before entering the ambiguous stage, a girl will define all boys who are close to her as friends.
This leads to the fact that from the perspective of a boy, there is no pure friendship between men and women. I approach a girl because I am interested in her, otherwise who would have the patience to be friends with her; while from the perspective of a girl, as long as the boy If he has no ambiguity with me, no confession, no explicit relationship, then he is my friend.
2. Is there a friendship that both parties agree on?
The answer is yes, but the probability is very small . Because there are huge differences in the brain circuits of boys and girls, there are also huge differences in the topics they can talk about. Boys like military, politics, games, history, philosophy and other topics; girls like beauty, shopping, food, gossip, etc. Travel and other topics. If it is not to find a boyfriend or girlfriend, I believe everyone would prefer to be friends with someone of the same sex.
The special cases are henchmen and women’s friends. Although these two types of people have the bodies of boys (girls), they have the brain circuits of girls (boys). This kind of people have special characteristics. It is easy to have true pure friendship with the opposite sex.
In addition to these two groups of people, I think it is more appropriate to describe the so-called opposite-sex friendship in terms of "goals I pursue" and "potential development partners."
Frankly speaking, I am particularly disgusted by some men and women who clearly exceed the boundaries of ordinary friends and still refuse to admit it. When you mentioned the two of them, he would say to you: Hahaha, how could it be possible for us?
In this regard, I can only say: Hahaha, if you have never thought about this matter in your heart, how can you judge that it is impossible?
There is a reasonable friendship between men and women. This kind of friendship does not harm love and is not affectionate, but it is definitely not an absolute 100% pure friendship between men and women. If you say completely pure, absolutely pure, 100% pure.
