We often say that someone has cheated, but this cheating can be divided into mental cheating and physical cheating, but mental cheating is more difficult to judge than physical cheating. Now let’s talk about what does mental infidelity mean? What are the circumstances that qualify as mental infidelity? If you find your partner has cheated on you, do you need to forgive him?
1. What does mental infidelity mean?
Mental infidelity is easily confused with simple chatting. Let’s talk about the difference between the two below:
Simple chatting Sao means having ambiguous conversations with others just out of boredom and loneliness and getting satisfaction and pleasure from it. Mental infidelity is having tangible, genuine feelings for another person. Objectively speaking, simply chatting about sex is worse than mental cheating, and even more unforgivable. Because simply chatting about sex proves that this person is a frivolous person who will do unethical things just for superficial pleasure and stimulation. He has no sense of responsibility and willpower at all, and has no sense of respect for any of the three parties in the incident ( including himself). As for spiritual infidelity (meaning that you have true and profound feelings for another person outside the marriage), at least the person involved is not a person without a sense of responsibility and willpower, nor is it due to a lack of due respect for the marriage and spouse. The occurrence of feelings is inherently something that is uncontrollable and cannot be restricted by morality. Although it is wrong after all, it is understandable.
First of all, our human nature determines that we will have wild imaginations when we see the people and things we like, just like you like food or celebrities. , when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex, it often happens that people are cheating. The dividing point is whether substantive cheating will occur. People who have no bottom line and moral sense are more likely to progress from mental cheating to substantive cheating. People who have bottom line and moral sense are more likely to progress from spiritual cheating to substantive cheating. It is relatively difficult for emotional people to develop into actual cheating. The reason why many netizens cannot forgive each other's cheating is because they believe that it is only a matter of time before the spirit leaves the body. It is a social phenomenon, right? But, but, but, what I want to say is true. In our society, only a very small number of people engage in promiscuity, and most people have normal relationships between men and women. Don’t take it for granted and think that what you see is everything! The more you think about it, the worse it is for you! Your own three views will be ruined, the more you will feel that society is dark, you will not believe in beauty, and you will not believe in love! Please focus your energy on things that are meaningful to your entire life, even if you read more books! When you break out of the vicious circle at the bottom and look back at all this, you will find that even the questions are so ridiculous.
2. Can you forgive someone who cheated mentally?
Whether it is mental cheating or physical cheating, it actually destroys the trust between two people. It is easy to establish trust between two people for the first time, but when trust is torn down, it is extremely difficult to establish trust again. I find that management often goes off the rails, just like if someone you trust stabs you in the back, you will no longer dare to trust him or her in the future. So can you be forgiven if you are mentally cheating?
When two people are together, they have to consider whether the other person is worthy of giving their back to the other person. This is a lifelong matter. Once trust is torn, the other person will also It is difficult to trust you again, let alone talk about it for a lifetime, so whether it is mental or physical cheating, I do not recommend you to try it.
