Whether couples should let each other look at their cell phones has always been a controversial topic. Both parties can give their own reasons whether to let each other look at their phones. What is an invasion of privacy? Trust is the most important thing. Don’t let them look at it. There are ghosts in mobile phones... I have to say that Zi Ou spoke clearly and clearly before it was my turn. What would you do if you encountered this kind of problem? Is it normal for my girlfriend not to let me see her phone? Why?
1. The reason why my girlfriend won’t let me see her phone
Before we see the contents of my girlfriend’s phone, we will not make any unreasonable comments about what is in her phone. There are ulterior secrets that I don’t want you to know. Let’s make some assumptions and analyze the reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t want you to look at your phone:
1. There is nothing in your girlfriend’s phone, but Don't want you to see it. This situation is very interesting. There is a big difference between not wanting to be seen and not being able to be seen. You know the size yourself.
2. There are many ulterior secrets in your girlfriend’s cell phone. This is troublesome. You see, you want to break up with her. Of course she won't show it to you. If she doesn't show it to you, what will she think if you break up with her? She will think that you have to break up with me after reading it. There are so many ulterior motives in it, how can you bear it? If you don’t see it, you still want to break up with me. Then I might as well not show it to you. Even if you break up for this reason, at least you don’t know her secret yet, and she can leave decently, saving you the chance of discovering her various ulterior secrets.
3. Your girlfriend feels that you don’t know each other well enough, and she doesn’t fully trust you. For example, you haven't known each other long enough. She feels that she has her privacy and you have yours. She won't actively ask to see your phone, so you can't look at her phone either. Also, she doesn’t want something on the phone to cause you to misunderstand and cause unnecessary conflicts in the relationship. Such a girlfriend may voluntarily let you look at her phone after getting to know you deeply, rather than being forced to let you look at her phone. She feels that things like looking at mobile phones can only be done when the time is right.
2. What should I do if my girlfriend doesn’t let me see my cell phone?
Whether you are a boyfriend or a girlfriend, relationship problems cannot be solved by looking at each other’s cell phones. If you insist If you want to see some actual results, it's quite cowardly. I want to see my girlfriend’s cell phone, I want to see it very much, and I even seek ways to see the other person’s cell phone. This is a bit perverted or too insecure. If you think the other person is abnormal, it doesn't make any difference whether you look at your phone or not. Points should be scored, and forgiveness should be forgiven. It doesn't matter. I suggest you use this energy to re-consider the relationship between you and improve yourself. When two people are together, they need to make progress together and get better together, instead of dwelling on the present.
MostFinally, if you really want to know if your girlfriend is unfaithful to you, there are many clues besides mobile phones, such as the Internet, such as her movement track... If it is not possible, you can just watch secretly without your girlfriend knowing (you are discovered) It might be miserable). Finally, it is not comprehensive to judge whether your relationship is strong or not by looking at your cell phone.
