Why do couples always quarrel whenever they talk? In fact, quarrels between husband and wife have always been a very common problem. The problem lies in how to comfort the wife after the quarrel. Many couples quarrel, but a man who can comfort his wife after the quarrel is the man who can take the initiative to grasp happiness.
1. How to comfort your wife after a quarrel
When his wife is angry, a man should allow his wife to be angry. Give her the freedom to express her emotions, and don't challenge or interrupt your wife if she chatters when she's angry.
Anger requires energy. Your wife may relax within 10-15 minutes. During this time, you must listen to what your wife is saying without interruption (Uninterrupted
Listening); You need to face your wife, keep paying attention to her, and respond to your wife with your eyes and body language. Finally! Try to use your comforting (Comforting) to make the other person feel that they are cared for.
Studies have found that touch can produce physical resonance in romantic partners, and this change in physiological state is a prerequisite for the formation of emotional contagion and empathy (Chatel-Goldman et al., 2014).
If you quarrel with your wife, you must be angry. If you want your wife not to be angry at this time, you should take the initiative to step down for your wife. This will make her feel that you care about her, and she will naturally feel better. You will be less angry. For example, hug her when she goes to bed at night. If she doesn't object, continue to hug her. If she wants to push you away, hug her tighter.
9 out of 10 girls are foodies. My wife is very angry at this time, and she must have said some irrational and angry words in her anger during the quarrel. First of all, as men, we need to adjust our mood first, then go shopping and bring our wife some snacks or snacks that she usually likes to eat. In this way, your wife will also feel that you still care about her. If you let her eat something she likes, she will be in a good mood and naturally she will not quarrel with you anymore.
2. What are the ten words to make a woman happy
1. No matter what happens, I will I will always be by your side. I will always be your strongest support. Please trust me.
2. Missing you is what I do every day, and loving you is my lifelong pursuit.
3. When I open my eyes every day, I just think, what should I do with you today? You are already in my future plan.
4. If you don’t know me yet, don’t worry, I will slowly introduce myself to you in detail until the sales are successful and you can accept me.
5. My infatuationDestined to beat only for you.
6. Although I have seen so many women in my life, you are the one who has always attracted my heart the most. .
7. Maybe I didn’t participate in your past, but I will definitely not be absent from your future.
8. I miss you and I love you. So don't have any doubts about my sincerity anymore, I will be sure of you for the rest of your life.
9. No matter what the mistake is, it’s all my fault. I can’t live without you. Please forgive me.
10. Every beat of my heart is related to you, and every smile is related to you.