Whether it is love or marriage, it is best to get the consent and support of both parents. After all, it is a relative who is constantly parted with. But sometimes two people clearly love each other, but they can't get over the hurdle of being parents. This is also very distressing. If it’s your own parents, that’s fine, you can just find a way to convince them. But what if it’s the girl’s parents who don’t agree? Below I will share with you strategies for dealing with the disagreement of the girl’s parents, and how to persuade the girl’s parents to agree to your being together.
1. Your girlfriend must stand on the same front as you
When you encounter problems on the road of love, people should work together to solve the problem, rather than one person throwing the problem and leaving it to the other. People have to deal with it, so whether your girlfriend is willing to face it with you is also very important. If the woman has a good enough relationship with you, she will not leave you easily just because her parents object. Instead, she will try to persuade her parents to accept you.
2. Can the objections of the girl’s parents be resolved?
If you only hope that your girlfriend will go Convince her parents that this idea is unrealistic. You also need to make efforts yourself, such as understanding the reasons why the woman's parents object to you being together, and see if you can solve it and eliminate their worries.
If you object to your daughter marrying far away, or you dislike your parents for being unreasonable, etc., that doesn’t matter. You can solve these problems. For example, he promised the woman's mother to return to her parents' home once or twice a year after marriage, to allow the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law to live separately after marriage, and to buy a house and settle down near the woman in the future, etc.
If the girl’s parents feel that your character is not good enough and are afraid that you will not treat their daughter well, then go to them and show off your strengths and strengths to show your love for your girlfriend. Be careful and considerate, and let your girlfriend say nice things to prove yourself.
But if the woman’s parents dislike that your economic conditions are not good enough, your education is not high enough, and your job is not good enough, although these can be solved through hard work, it will take a certain amount of time and may not be possible. success. Whether you can still be together under this situation depends on how your girlfriend feels about you.
Summary: No matter which parent’s objection is, it is not enough to make young lovers break up. The only ones who can tear young people apart are themselves. Parents' opposition is just an excuse for not being firm enough or being selfish. So whether we can get to the end or not depends on the attitudes of the two of you.
