Although some people are married, they still can’t control their attraction to the opposite sex. After all, everyone has a vision for appreciating beauty; or because their marriage life is not very happy and their partner is indifferent to them, they go outside the marriage. Seek understanding and support. In fact, these are all excuses for extramarital affairs, and extramarital affairs have bad consequences in the end. Let me share with you the five stages of extramarital affairs. No matter how beautiful the beginning is, there is a cruel ending.
1. Ambiguity
Many people feel that their married life is boring, so they will seek the excitement of extramarital affairs, and will be desperate when they see someone express their affection for them. Pounced on. Whether it is a man or a woman, when an extramarital affair begins, they will feel very sweet and beautiful, and there is a feeling of regret that they met her too late: Why didn't I meet her earlier, otherwise the ending would be different now. It's like falling in love at the beginning of an extramarital affair. Both people want to get closer, and the feeling of mutual attraction is particularly exciting. This is also the reason why many people choose to have extramarital affairs without hesitation even though they know that they shouldn’t.
2. Strong fire
When two people in an extramarital affair take that step, the seeds of love It has already sprouted. At this time, both people are full of enthusiasm and want to stay with each other. Just like firewood meets fire, everything like morality, marriage, family, happiness...are all forgotten. At this time, the lovers who have an extramarital affair feel like they have fallen into love again, feeling that life is full of passion everywhere, but the status of being married It's always like a time bomb buried in your heart.
3. Return to dullness
Just like people will feel boring in marriage sooner or later, no matter how good the extramarital affair is, there will be a day when it returns to dullness. And love can continue without marriage because there are still family responsibilities. However, extramarital love is as light as water, and two people without the protection of marriage are destined to be just a casual relationship. At this time, the two people involved in the extramarital affair lost their original passion.
4. Emotional deterioration
What you can’t get is always in turmoil, and when you can’t get it, you want it Get it, get it and be afraid of losing it. Therefore, when both parties in an extramarital affair realize that their relationship has faded, they may be reluctant to let go. Moreover, some people are very possessive and will gradually forget the nature of their extramarital affair during the extramarital affair. Gradually, the relationship will be put under pressure and deteriorate.
5. Barely maintain
By the end of the extramarital affair, the relationship has actually begun to slowly deteriorate. As much as you loved each other at the beginning, you will hate each other later. You feel that lovers who have extramarital affairs have There is the danger of ruining one's reputation and the hidden danger of destroying one's own family... As everyone knows, all of this was caused by one's own weak will.
Whether you are a man or a woman, if you start an extramarital affair, you will definitely go through the five stages of an extramarital affair. It will be fine if you can get together and break up in the end, but if the other party and If you are in trouble, your current dull marriage will become a luxury. Don't think that your extramarital affair will be unnoticed, as long as you do it, you will leave clues. Therefore, you should be prepared to overcome the worst situation before starting an extramarital affair. Are you ready?
