In the long history of marriage, extramarital affairs are like a storm, causing great harm to families and individuals. And when people are trying to get out of extramarital affairs, some "helpers" not only fail to help them get out of trouble, but may actually make the situation worse. The following three types of helpers must be avoided.
1. Friends who “fan the flames”
This type of friend seems to be supporting you, but in fact they are fanning the flames. They may say to you: "Life is short, enjoy yourself while you can, and don't wrong yourself too much." Or, "Now that this is the case, let's just indulge completely." This kind of remarks will not only fail to solve the problem, but will lead you on the wrong path. Go further and further. They don't consider the consequences of extramarital affairs and just cater to your impulses and desires.
2. "Profit-only" emotional experts
Nowadays, the emotional consulting industry is a mixed bag, and there are many profit-seeking experts. people. They pretend to be professional, but they just want to earn high consulting fees. They may give you strategies that appear to be effective, but are actually just designed to prolong your consultation and keep you paying. Even worse, their advice may not be morally and ethically sound, putting you in deeper trouble.
3. Opposite sex with "ulterior motives"
In the process of trying to get rid of an extramarital affair, you must be especially wary of those of the opposite sex with ulterior motives. They may try to establish a closer relationship with you by appearing to understand and sympathize with you. However, their purpose is often not simple. They may just want to take advantage of your vulnerability and confusion to satisfy their own selfish desires. Contact with such people will only make your extramarital affair more complicated and difficult to solve.
Escape from an affair is a difficult journey that requires determination and the right guidance. By avoiding the above three types of helpers, you can more clearly understand the nature of the problem and find truly effective solutions.
Rely on your own inner strength. Reflect on your own behavior, recognize the harm extramarital affairs have caused to your family and others, and establish the determination to correct your mistakes. Communicate openly with family and friends who truly care about you and will give you genuine advice and support. Finally, seek professional and formal psychological counseling help, adjust your mentality and behavior through the guidance of professionals, and return to the normal track of life.
Getting rid of extramarital affairs requires courage and wisdom. Avoid helpers who may mislead you. Only by relying on yourself and truly trustworthy people can you get out of the haze and rebuild a better life.
